WEBVTT 00:00:55.202 --> 00:01:10.174 - I had the worst dream I dreamt that I was all alone and that I was never ever going to fall in love 00:08:05.026 --> 00:08:13.861 - I'm Brittany. Jeff and Brittany. This is a Bloomington couple. Well, for now, until they move away. 00:08:13.861 --> 00:08:22.785 - And I was wondering, what is it that attracted you to Jeff, Brittany? To Seth. Seth. Seth. Actually, 00:08:22.785 --> 00:08:31.797 - when I met him, he had really short surfer hair. And he was really tan, because he had just worked as 00:08:31.797 --> 00:08:33.918 - a lifeguard all summer. 00:08:34.818 --> 00:08:47.965 - And I guess his personality was what initially attracted me. And his cuteness just added. Well, he looks 00:08:47.965 --> 00:09:00.612 - like a very sweet fellow. Was he muscular? Kind of. Not really. So he was a lifeguard and he was tan 00:09:00.612 --> 00:09:03.742 - and really cute looking. 00:09:03.970 --> 00:09:11.529 - And maybe that's all the information I need for this little piece right now. But is there anything that 00:09:11.529 --> 00:09:18.869 - you would like to add, Seth, about what kind of sparked it off between you two? Well, I fell in love 00:09:18.869 --> 00:09:26.646 - with Bray here because I loved her personality. And she was just really kind of crazy. She'll do something 00:09:26.646 --> 00:09:31.806 - on the spur of the moment very spontaneous, which I liked in the girl. 00:09:32.034 --> 00:09:39.312 - She had, like, everything that I wanted in my female companion here. But we just kind of sparked it 00:09:39.312 --> 00:09:46.807 - off when we first met, so I thought it was... I thought it's been a great relationship, and I've loved 00:09:46.807 --> 00:09:54.376 - being with her ever since, so... You guys are a very lovely couple, and I'm actually happy just looking 00:09:54.376 --> 00:10:00.926 - at you two being together. And is this your dog? Yes, this is Dylan. Dylan. Hello, Dylan. 00:10:01.186 --> 00:10:14.295 - Say hi. Hi. Cute dog, cute couple. Let's go find another one. Hello guys. What are your names? Mickey. 00:10:14.295 --> 00:10:27.276 - Evan. Mickey and Evan. And from what you told me so far, you guys used to date each other. Right. And 00:10:27.276 --> 00:10:29.694 - when did you meet? 00:10:30.370 --> 00:10:37.692 - High school. High school, actually. Her senior year, my junior year. What was it that attracted you 00:10:37.692 --> 00:10:45.233 - to each other? You have a really great sense of humor. No, we always got along. We ran around with the 00:10:45.233 --> 00:10:53.214 - same group of friends. So it was really easy. We had a lot of things in common. What did you like about him? 00:10:54.210 --> 00:11:04.343 - He's talented. Talented? Oh. Oh. Well, you know, that's always good. How long did you guys date each 00:11:04.343 --> 00:11:14.476 - other? Pretty much all of last year and then through the summer. Almost a year. Interesting. And you 00:11:14.476 --> 00:11:23.806 - decided recently to start seeing other people or? Kind of. Just not see one another. Really? 00:11:24.418 --> 00:11:33.232 - Oh, so there's a bit of a rift, I suppose. Oh, really? No? Not so much. It's kind of a weird situation. 00:11:33.232 --> 00:11:41.961 - Really? Do you see your lives maybe traveling in different directions, I guess? We don't have a common 00:11:41.961 --> 00:11:50.436 - major or anything. We're not really from the same cities. So there's always going to be some space. 00:11:50.436 --> 00:11:52.894 - But it shouldn't be too bad. 00:11:53.826 --> 00:12:01.762 - We're just traveling. Traveling. This town, I've heard it described as a transitional place where people 00:12:01.762 --> 00:12:09.472 - are coming and going. And you guys decided that you didn't start fighting with each other, right? You 00:12:09.472 --> 00:12:17.181 - didn't start hating or getting angry at each other. Yeah, for a while. Maybe a little bit. But that's 00:12:17.181 --> 00:12:19.902 - not really what drove you to decide 00:12:20.290 --> 00:12:28.275 - that maybe won't date each other anymore? Right. They just weren't really for each other right now. 00:12:28.275 --> 00:12:36.420 - Interesting. That's very, it sounds very mature, and you guys are comfortable with it, right? It took 00:12:36.420 --> 00:12:39.934 - a little while, but yeah. That's very nice. 00:12:40.226 --> 00:12:47.767 - It wasn't ugly at all, was it? For a while. Really? Absolutely. I mean, it's a breakup. It's almost 00:12:47.767 --> 00:12:55.760 - always going to be ugly. But I mean, like, you see we're here every week. Yeah. And you guys are friends. 00:12:55.760 --> 00:13:03.602 - And it's beautiful. I don't go so far as... Do you mind if I ask a slightly personal question? Depends. 00:13:03.602 --> 00:13:09.182 - Go for it. Do you still, like, see each other, like, romantically at all? 00:13:09.410 --> 00:13:18.253 - No, you don't you don't like kiss or make out or you don't You don't like kiss or make out or you don't 00:13:18.253 --> 00:13:27.181 - you don't you don't you don't you don't You don't like kiss or make out or hold hands or hug each other. 00:13:27.181 --> 00:13:35.769 - Do you hug each other? Yeah Hugging is friendly. I'm her dance partner too. So oh you dance together 00:13:35.769 --> 00:13:37.214 - swing dance neat 00:13:38.050 --> 00:13:46.179 - I swing danced with a girl once and I never saw her again after that. That one time. Oh man. So this 00:13:46.179 --> 00:13:54.629 - was a really neat interview and I thank you very much. Your names again? Evan. Evan. Mickey. And Mickey. 00:13:54.629 --> 00:14:02.838 - Thank you. Hello. What is your name miss? Leslie. This is Leslie. Hi. Do you have a boyfriend Leslie? 00:14:02.838 --> 00:14:06.782 - Yes. Yes. What is his name? His name is Michael. 00:14:06.914 --> 00:14:14.843 - That's a very nice name. How long have you guys known each other? Seven years. Seven years, wow. You 00:14:14.843 --> 00:14:23.086 - guys have been boyfriend and girlfriend for seven years? In November, it'll be seven. We knew each other 00:14:23.086 --> 00:14:30.622 - for seven years. That is some good love. Yes. Cool. It is great. What brought you two together? 00:14:30.754 --> 00:14:36.890 - Um, we both play alto saxophone and we're at a band concert and we were in different high schools and 00:14:36.890 --> 00:14:43.206 - we stood next to each other and he was breaking up with another girl at the time and he just like turned 00:14:43.206 --> 00:14:49.282 - to me and the first words he said were, I love you. And ever since, we've been together. I wish that 00:14:49.282 --> 00:14:52.350 - would happen to me. Yeah, it's very romantic. Wow. 00:14:52.546 --> 00:14:59.413 - That is really good. It was very nice to meet you, Wesley. I'm glad I got your story. Oh, thanks. That 00:14:59.413 --> 00:15:06.413 - was some good romance. What's your name? My name's Adam. Adam. Did you say that? I don't think so. Okay. 00:15:06.413 --> 00:15:13.147 - It was very rude of me. Sorry. Well, Michael's a very lucky guy. Oh, thank you. Good luck, you guys. 00:15:13.147 --> 00:15:20.214 - Hi. What's your name, miss? Paula. Paula. This is Paula. And where are you from? I'm from Brazil. Brazil. 00:15:20.214 --> 00:15:22.014 - I've never been to Brazil. 00:15:22.626 --> 00:15:30.785 - Yeah. Well, I have. So you have a boyfriend, Paula. Yes. Or Paula. Paula. That's right. You really like 00:15:30.785 --> 00:15:39.100 - this boyfriend? Yeah, I do. What attracted you to him in the first place? Can I tell you a story? Because 00:15:39.100 --> 00:15:44.670 - it's a really complicated story. If you want to, if you have time. OK. 00:15:44.770 --> 00:15:51.609 - Well, I was in Brazil in a concert, and I was walking around, and there were about five thousand people 00:15:51.609 --> 00:15:58.448 - there. And I was just walking around with a friend of mine, and I saw a guy in the distance that looked 00:15:58.448 --> 00:16:00.158 - to me really interesting. 00:16:00.354 --> 00:16:06.066 - He looked like a very interesting person, a very smart person. He was wearing a winter hag and everything. 00:16:06.066 --> 00:16:11.511 - Something struck you about him. Yeah, I don't know what it was. I think he looked like someone I knew 00:16:11.511 --> 00:16:16.956 - from before or something. So I looked at him, and he was just walking. He didn't look at me at first, 00:16:16.956 --> 00:16:19.678 - and I was just looking at him like this, you know. 00:16:20.002 --> 00:16:25.571 - He looked at me, and I still looked at him. I didn't stop. I was like, just look at him. And he still 00:16:25.571 --> 00:16:31.195 - looked at me. And he turned around and was going to go. I mean, he was far away. He turned around, and 00:16:31.195 --> 00:16:36.710 - he was going to go away. And I was going to tell my friend, oh, look at that guy. And when I looked, 00:16:36.710 --> 00:16:41.406 - he was like this, and he was like, are you looking at me? And I was like, yeah, I am. 00:16:41.730 --> 00:16:48.117 - He just, I went like this and he came and that's how we met. And I don't know, it just, his face just 00:16:48.117 --> 00:16:54.504 - looked, looked, looked, looked like. It clicked. Yeah. That sounds like a really cool moment. It was. 00:16:54.504 --> 00:17:00.953 - And how long have you been together? It's gonna be a year in May. That's pretty nice. So 10 months and 00:17:00.953 --> 00:17:03.646 - yeah. And so you met him in Brazil and is, 00:17:04.002 --> 00:17:10.169 - Is he still in Brazil? Yeah, he is. He's waiting for you to come home. Well, actually, he just got his 00:17:10.169 --> 00:17:16.337 - tourist visa, and he's going to come visit next month. Oh, exciting. He's buying his ticket right now. 00:17:16.337 --> 00:17:22.384 - I bet that will be a lot of fun. Yeah, I think so too. He'll be around here immediately. Cool. Maybe 00:17:22.384 --> 00:17:28.552 - I'll have a camera at that time. Yeah, follow up the story. We can get his version of the story. Yeah, 00:17:28.552 --> 00:17:33.342 - it was really cool. Sweet. Well, thank you, Paula. Thank you. So it was just... 00:17:33.602 --> 00:17:40.290 - He looked familiar, like maybe deja vu or out of a dream or something. Yeah, he really did. He kind 00:17:40.290 --> 00:17:47.111 - of looks like an actor, actually, in Brazil. I mean, I'm the only one who thinks this, though. Nobody 00:17:47.111 --> 00:17:53.799 - else thinks he looks like him. Yeah, he looked like a smart person. He actually is very smart, very 00:17:53.799 --> 00:17:59.550 - interesting, so. Cool. I was lucky. You sound very lucky. What a lucky man. OK, well. 00:18:00.162 --> 00:18:10.518 - I think that's the end of our interview, and I'll go find another nice young lady or couple to interview. 00:18:10.518 --> 00:18:20.776 - Thank you. Thank you. Hello, I've stopped this random girl in the hallway. What is your name? I'm Karina 00:18:20.776 --> 00:18:29.374 - Miller. Where are you from? Ooh, neat. Do you have a boyfriend? What's his name? James. 00:18:29.506 --> 00:18:42.041 - Can you tell me a little bit about what attracted you to him in the first place? Oh. So you spent a 00:18:42.041 --> 00:18:55.078 - lot of time with each other and just sort of grew on each other. Did it start off as like, did it start 00:18:55.078 --> 00:18:56.958 - off as seeming 00:18:57.186 --> 00:19:05.566 - Like out of a dream, like you saw him and were just attracted to him in the first place? Neat. So you 00:19:05.566 --> 00:19:13.289 - knew each other for a nice period of time and just grew closer and closer. Yeah. That's cool. 00:19:13.289 --> 00:19:21.670 - I like that. OK. Well, thank you very much. What was your name again? Karina. Karina. I'm Adam. Adam, 00:19:21.670 --> 00:19:26.846 - nice to meet you. Same to you. And I hope you have a nice day. 00:19:27.298 --> 00:19:35.827 - Hi, I'm here with a couple of people that I work with. This is, what's your name? Sean Graham. Sean 00:19:35.827 --> 00:19:44.526 - and his lovely, are you guys married? Boyfriend and girlfriend? Amy. His girlfriend, Amy. And how did 00:19:44.526 --> 00:19:53.226 - you two meet? I met her at Tessan's apartment. What was it that attracted you two together? Was there 00:19:53.226 --> 00:19:55.614 - a spark? A look in the eye? 00:19:58.562 --> 00:20:08.567 - Oh, no, I guess we just shared some in the same entrance. Yeah? And you guys started spending time with 00:20:08.567 --> 00:20:18.379 - each other and just grew on each other? Somewhat. And love developed. And here we are today. Is there 00:20:18.379 --> 00:20:27.326 - anything you might want to add about how you guys feel about each other? Light of your life? 00:20:27.522 --> 00:20:35.883 - We care about each other and we try to listen to one another and help if we can. A lovely couple and 00:20:35.883 --> 00:20:44.161 - I'm glad to know you guys and I hope you have a nice day. Hi. Hi. My name's Adam. What's your name? 00:20:44.161 --> 00:20:53.598 - I'm Evelyn. Evelyn? Yeah. That's pretty. How old are you? I'm 29. And where are you from? I'm from Bombay, India. 00:20:53.794 --> 00:21:00.957 - It's really far. Cool. That's very neat. Thank you. How do you like Bloomington, Indiana? It's very 00:21:00.957 --> 00:21:07.761 - pretty, and it's really fun to find your way around campus. I've had quite a lot of adventure. 00:21:07.761 --> 00:21:14.996 - Is that fun? Yeah. Pretty much, yeah. The people here are pretty nice sometimes. They are. They are. 00:21:14.996 --> 00:21:22.302 - Yeah, you can ask them for things. Yeah. Directions, mostly. I've had a nice time since I moved here. 00:21:22.722 --> 00:21:35.014 - Let's see, Evelyn, have you ever had a boyfriend? Yes, I have. What was his name? There was more than 00:21:35.014 --> 00:21:46.463 - one, so yeah. Do you have one now? No, not right now. So were they all Indian? One was Indian, 00:21:46.463 --> 00:21:50.078 - and two were, and one wasn't. 00:21:50.594 --> 00:21:59.544 - I don't know if I can say what their names are because they might watch this. Oh, right on. What attracted 00:21:59.544 --> 00:22:07.992 - you to these men? Are you more attracted to Indian men or any certain type of men? It doesn't really 00:22:07.992 --> 00:22:14.014 - have to do with race. It pretty much has to do with what they're about. 00:22:14.146 --> 00:22:23.647 - Intensity is an attractive quality and I know it really doesn't have to do with race at all. Does that 00:22:23.647 --> 00:22:33.148 - answer your question? Yes. Intensity as in a drive? A drive. Ambition? Ambition. Very, very attractive 00:22:33.148 --> 00:22:43.294 - qualities. They just get me. Cool. I've heard that a lot. So have you experienced any high levels of romance? 00:22:43.394 --> 00:22:51.415 - Do you think they gave you something to go do? Probably, yeah. Like beautiful walks on the beach, and 00:22:51.415 --> 00:22:59.358 - things like that? Where they surprised you, gave you really cool gifts? Yeah. Not all of them. Wrote 00:22:59.358 --> 00:23:07.301 - you poetry? Anybody ever write you a poem? No. No. No, they sang me songs and played for me. But no, 00:23:07.301 --> 00:23:11.390 - they gave me jewelry. Yeah. So they were musicians. 00:23:12.322 --> 00:23:19.255 - They were all musicians, this is true. And now I've sworn off musicians. Oh, no. Why? Well, one learns 00:23:19.255 --> 00:23:26.120 - that two people with the same kind of intensity and the same kind of goal, it's usually don't coexist 00:23:26.120 --> 00:23:32.851 - as beautifully as you might think they would. The chemistry could get a little volatile, maybe? Or? 00:23:32.851 --> 00:23:39.784 - Yeah. In the long run, it does. It does. There's no room for two divas. There's just no room for that. 00:23:39.784 --> 00:23:41.534 - So, yeah. I just figured. 00:23:42.018 --> 00:23:49.667 - I can't pretend to not be what I am, and so that's what I do. Cool. Well, I'm glad I got to ask you 00:23:49.667 --> 00:23:57.775 - about that and get that perspective from you. I'm kind of attracted to musicians myself. I haven't played 00:23:57.775 --> 00:24:05.807 - too much, and just artists in general. I like art and the ability to create. I think that's really cool. 00:24:05.807 --> 00:24:06.878 - That is cool. 00:24:07.010 --> 00:24:16.560 - Evelyn, thank you very much. Sure, not a problem. Nice meeting you, Adam. Yes, good luck on your journeys. 00:24:16.560 --> 00:24:25.575 - Thank you, thank you. You too. Good day. So, hello. Hi, hi. What are your names? Mary, Elena. Elena, 00:24:25.575 --> 00:24:31.198 - Mary and Elena. How old are you? 14. You're both 14 years old? 00:24:31.330 --> 00:24:41.459 - Have you ever fallen in love with anybody before? Yeah? Yeah. Well, I know young people have these crazy 00:24:41.459 --> 00:24:50.430 - hormones and they fall in love really easily, I think. I remember what it was like to be 14. 00:24:51.042 --> 00:24:59.990 - What do you expect it to be like when you fall in love? What do you want to do? Get married? What are 00:24:59.990 --> 00:25:04.990 - your expectations of falling in love? That's a hard one. 00:25:05.474 --> 00:25:15.191 - I don't know, having a best friend that's always there. A best friend that's always there? Yeah. When 00:25:15.191 --> 00:25:25.004 - do you expect you'll get married? Do you ever think about how old you want to be when you get married? 00:25:25.004 --> 00:25:26.814 - Yeah, like 24. 24? 00:25:27.010 --> 00:25:34.985 - Yeah. That's actually pretty funny, because I'm 24, and a lot of people I know that are my age don't 00:25:34.985 --> 00:25:43.040 - really want to get married. Really? Yeah, really. What age do you want to be married? Well, actually, 00:25:43.040 --> 00:25:50.936 - I'm not sure I want to be married anyway. I'm really independent. Yeah, it's hard to say. You know, 00:25:50.936 --> 00:25:55.358 - things change over the years, and it gets really crazy. 00:25:56.098 --> 00:26:08.694 - Have you ever, like, had a serious boyfriend? Not in terms of, like, life. Not really. Have you ever, 00:26:08.694 --> 00:26:21.042 - like, kissed boys? Yeah. Like, a lot? Do you do that a lot? Not a lot. Not a lot. I can't wait till 00:26:21.042 --> 00:26:25.982 - my mom sees this on TV. OK, well, then. 00:26:26.082 --> 00:26:33.730 - I think I probably got what I need out of this interview. Good thing. Thank you very much. What are 00:26:33.730 --> 00:26:41.455 - your names again? Mary and... Alaina. Alaina. Thank you. You're welcome. Thank you. I know. Hi. Hey. 00:26:41.455 --> 00:26:49.562 - What's your name? My name's Cherie. Cherie. This is Cherie. I know Cherie. I just asked that to be funny. 00:26:49.562 --> 00:26:54.686 - But do you have a boyfriend? No. No. What kind of things do you... 00:26:54.978 --> 00:27:07.648 - Are you attracted to men or women or whatever you're attracted to? What am I attracted to, Geller? Smart. 00:27:07.648 --> 00:27:18.526 - I'm attracted to smart people with smooth hookups. Smooth hookups. What's a smooth hookup? 00:27:19.234 --> 00:27:28.027 - Um, I don't really know. I just did. I really just said it to be cool. Is there like gang? Yep. I'm 00:27:28.027 --> 00:27:37.260 - attracted to gang members. I said game. Oh. Game. No, no. This is serious. Smart gang members. Generally 00:27:37.260 --> 00:27:45.438 - smart, funny, well-articulated people. Oh. Do you think I'm smart, funny, and like to do it? 00:27:46.082 --> 00:27:58.100 - Yes, you're smart, funny, and well articulated. Would you like to go out on a date sometime? Oh my god, 00:27:58.100 --> 00:28:09.655 - you're ridiculous. No, probably not. I already emailed you back on that idea. I don't know you well 00:28:09.655 --> 00:28:11.966 - enough to date you. 00:28:12.034 --> 00:28:21.393 - Oh, okay. Well, I mean, isn't that how you get to know people is by going out on dates with them? Yeah, 00:28:21.393 --> 00:28:30.931 - but I don't date anyone I work with. Oh. That ended poorly. Oh. Well, you broke my heart. So, interview's 00:28:30.931 --> 00:28:40.110 - over. I know, I'm joking. No, that's fine. I like you. I think you're really cool. Yeah, and I'm glad 00:28:40.110 --> 00:28:42.000 - you sat down with me 00:28:42.000 --> 00:28:49.638 - for a moment. No problem. Because I think this is really enlightening. It's enlightening? Yeah, not 00:28:49.638 --> 00:28:56.894 - only for me, obviously, and people who may be watching. All right. Thank you, Sri. No problem. 00:28:57.474 --> 00:29:06.963 - Hi. Hello. What's your name? Jennifer. Jennifer. How old are you? I am 20. 20. Do you have a boyfriend? 00:29:06.963 --> 00:29:14.718 - No, I do not. What do you like in men? Or do you like women also? I only prefer men. 00:29:15.010 --> 00:29:23.572 - I like, in a male, their service and for the Lord. I am a Christian, so I enjoy those sort of situations. 00:29:23.572 --> 00:29:31.730 - I like relationships that lead me in that direction, that encourage me and uplift me, so that we can 00:29:31.730 --> 00:29:39.887 - better help the world in those environments. That's very admirable. And I myself, I'm not Christian. 00:29:39.887 --> 00:29:44.976 - I'm not really religious at all, but I understand how that is. 00:29:44.976 --> 00:29:49.342 - That's really how I feel if I were to fall in love with somebody. 00:29:50.082 --> 00:29:56.647 - Like joining with somebody on a mission, right? Yes, a partnership, like a business partnership. Oh, 00:29:56.647 --> 00:30:03.147 - precisely. It's very like a business partnership. Financial responsibility is a big part of falling 00:30:03.147 --> 00:30:09.648 - in love with somebody and getting married and having a family. Yeah, I've actually recently fell in 00:30:09.648 --> 00:30:16.473 - love with someone, but not actually dating, because I've done a thing of singleness for like six months. 00:30:16.473 --> 00:30:20.048 - So I want to go through that, and then I will be ready 00:30:20.048 --> 00:30:27.972 - to possibly date this person. Are you a virgin? Yes. Wow. That's very admirable also. You must have 00:30:27.972 --> 00:30:35.975 - had the urge to have sex and stuff like that before, right? Oh, sure. I mean, every person. I'm just 00:30:35.975 --> 00:30:43.978 - like anyone else. I'm a sinner in myself. So that desire is obviously there. It's something that you 00:30:43.978 --> 00:30:50.000 - have to have control. And I think that through my relationship with Christ, 00:30:50.000 --> 00:30:58.632 - that I have been able to sustain my virginity. And keep yourself safe. Yes. From all sorts of dangers. 00:30:58.632 --> 00:31:07.934 - STDs. And not only that but falling in love with people that probably aren't the best. That are materialistic. 00:31:08.226 --> 00:31:16.789 - Sure. Yeah, that's my fear. What was your name again? Jennifer. Jennifer. Well, I can't really think 00:31:16.789 --> 00:31:25.437 - of anything else to ask you. Okay. So I think I must have gotten what I came looking for. Yeah. Well, 00:31:25.437 --> 00:31:28.574 - thank you very much. You're welcome. 00:31:28.802 --> 00:31:37.618 - I don't like audiences. Hi. Hi. What's your name? Megan. Megan, how old are you? 27. 27. Mm-hmm. Do 00:31:37.618 --> 00:31:46.787 - you have a boyfriend? No. No. Have you ever had a boyfriend? Yes. What was he like? Or better yet, what 00:31:46.787 --> 00:31:55.779 - are you attracted to? Do you have any idea or is it mostly? They have to be responsible. They have to 00:31:55.779 --> 00:31:57.278 - pay their bills. 00:31:57.666 --> 00:32:04.679 - They can't live under mommy and daddy's roof. They can't live by mommy and daddy paying their bills. 00:32:04.679 --> 00:32:11.970 - They have to be driven, motivated, passionate towards something. I don't care what it is, just anything. 00:32:11.970 --> 00:32:16.414 - Why is that? Because I am. And I don't like unmotivated people. 00:32:16.610 --> 00:32:22.699 - You know, because I have so many things I want to do and so many passions that I want to do. And if 00:32:22.699 --> 00:32:28.849 - I'm dating somebody who doesn't, then it doesn't work. It's boring to me. And I just look at them as 00:32:28.849 --> 00:32:32.990 - being lazy and irresponsible. Ah. That's very admirable, I believe. 00:32:33.346 --> 00:32:38.493 - Although, I guess, not qualities that you always find in people, even though, you know, you'd think 00:32:38.493 --> 00:32:43.847 - that people would strive for that sort of thing, but no. But no, you don't. No, it's actually very hard 00:32:43.847 --> 00:32:49.045 - to find. Because you think that a guy's like that, and you go after him for that, and then he's not. 00:32:49.045 --> 00:32:54.296 - And then he's in debt and can't pay his bills, and you're just like, seriously, it's not that hard to 00:32:54.296 --> 00:32:59.494 - pay your bills. Is that what happened to you? It's happened to me a couple times, yeah. Really? More 00:32:59.494 --> 00:33:00.318 - often than not. 00:33:00.834 --> 00:33:09.387 - So how old did you say you were? 27. How many boyfriends have you had? Four or five. Four or five. Did 00:33:09.387 --> 00:33:18.023 - you think that any of them were very, very serious? They were serious, yes. I never thought I was going 00:33:18.023 --> 00:33:26.576 - to marry any of them. No, never? No, and I told them that from the very beginning. I love you, but I'm 00:33:26.576 --> 00:33:29.150 - not going to marry you. Funny. 00:33:29.506 --> 00:33:37.390 - 14 year old girl earlier, and I was like, so what do you expect love to be like? When do you think you'll 00:33:37.390 --> 00:33:44.977 - get married? Do you ever think about getting married? And she said, um, she said, yeah, I think maybe 00:33:44.977 --> 00:33:52.638 - around 24 or something. And I was like, okay, yeah, most 24 year old people don't want to get married. 00:33:52.802 --> 00:33:58.254 - It's weird, I mean, I'm glad because I don't want to get married for a long time, but, and our generation 00:33:58.254 --> 00:34:03.449 - seems to be putting it off more and more and more. So I appreciate that because in my lifestyle, all 00:34:03.449 --> 00:34:08.593 - the things that I want to do, I can't get married. Like I want to do the P square. I want to do all 00:34:08.593 --> 00:34:13.788 - these different things and I can't be married to do these things. And so it's nice to know that I'll 00:34:13.788 --> 00:34:19.240 - at least have some options by the time I want to get married, you know, instead of people getting married 00:34:19.240 --> 00:34:21.246 - at 22, 23, 24. Yeah. Um, I guess when, 00:34:21.474 --> 00:34:29.830 - When you live in a culture where women are more educated and it's becoming more and more like that, 00:34:29.830 --> 00:34:35.262 - you know, and they become more empowered, it's the standards for 00:34:35.362 --> 00:34:41.290 - love and relationships become higher. Which is frustrating because when you get to be 27, then you're 00:34:41.290 --> 00:34:47.334 - just like, am I ever going to find what I'm looking for? Have I put too much of a high standard on what 00:34:47.334 --> 00:34:53.145 - I want? You know what I mean? And you try to hold out hope that you're not going to have to bend on 00:34:53.145 --> 00:34:59.073 - those standards. But as you get older, you realize some things are, you can bend on those. But as far 00:34:59.073 --> 00:35:04.478 - as being responsible and driven, I won't bend on those. And I'd rather be alone than settle. 00:35:04.706 --> 00:35:10.409 - I really would. Wow. Well, um, what was your name again? Megan. Megan. Megan. Well, thank you so much 00:35:10.409 --> 00:35:15.664 - for the interview. Yeah, no problem. This is the best one that I've had so far. Really? Yeah, 00:35:15.664 --> 00:35:21.032 - I think so, the most enlightening. Oh, awesome. I'm sure you say that to everybody. No, no, no, 00:35:21.032 --> 00:35:27.182 - I'm serious. You want the tape? You're very beautiful. Oh, thanks. And I'm sure someday... I'm hoping. ...you 00:35:27.182 --> 00:35:32.158 - will find what you're looking for. I'm really hoping. I believe it. I have faith in you.